The Dos & Don'ts of Dating a Pisces Woman
Don't bore her. Be interesting, deep and playful! Ms. Pisces possesses a childlike innocence. She's full of whimsy, with an otherworldly point of view. Keeping things too traditional and by-the-book, is a quick way to douse her interest in you. Instead, feed into her hearty imagination. Choose dates that separate her from the mundane and expected and instead, feed into fantasy. Take her to a 1920's - style speakeasy, a Shakespearean festival, an eclectic musical concert or a museum with abstract art. If you're advanced in your relationship, suggest role-playing in the bedroom and enjoy her embracing unique characters with great ease! She is a chameleon and will have a blast taking on new forms to excite and please you.
When it comes to outings and energy, she's not as get-up-and-go as an Aires or Sagittarius, but she is also not a total homebody like Taurus. Find a balance between the two and identify a good mix of down-time at home or in nature and playful activities.
Don't overwhelm her with decisions. Take the lead, minus the ego! Ms. Pisces won't be the best with directions, maps and picking between several options. She sees the good in everything - so the concept of "picking" or "choosing" is difficult. Be certain in your decisions when you are with her, but if she lets you know that something doesn't "feel right" about your suggestion - trust her intuition and pick the next best idea. Remember, as you take the lead, do so kindly and peacefully. She needs someone who is gentle and strong - not an overly-aggressive or harsh partner.
Don't keep her guessing, let her know how you feel … often! Though intuitive, a Pisces woman needs to experience your affection. She will need you to cuddle her, say sweet, loving things to her (and mean what you say) and lots of hand-holding and hugs. She needs assurance, otherwise she will speedily swim off if she feels neglected or placed to the side.
Allow her to care for you! Similar to Ms. Cancer, Ms. Pisces is nurturing, loving, gentle and cares deeply for all things. When in a relationship, allow her to express her adoration and affection. Be sure to be appreciative of her kind acts and avoid making her feel taken advantage of. If you can do this, you will find that she will travel to the moon and back for you. There is nothing she wouldn't do for someone she deeply cares about - even if its self-sacrificial. She is capable of orchestrating deep, true, fairy-tale type love.
Let her transform, rigidity is offensive to her! The Pisces woman represents fluidity and holds the power to morph. She can be a wall flower, unassuming and easily blended into a group or environment. On a different day, she's the center of attention and boiling over with charisma. Ms. Pisces is the ultimate chameleon and master transformer in mood, appearance and mentality. Allow her to bask in this. She may need to switch up her environment or look often to cater to shifting moods and universal changes. Don't be surprised if she walks in with an exotic new hairstyle or rearranges the furniture in your home randomly. Accept this of her and it may even be exciting for you to meet a "new" woman each day! This is one way she keeps on-beat with the sway of the cosmos.
Don't give her ultimatums, allow her to be flexible in all situations! Don't make your Pisces feel that if she doesn't side with you, you'll leave her or won't support her. Remember she is flexible to all situations. So the "all or nothing" concept isn't something she can vibe with. Compromise, balance and the happiness of all involved is important to her. She's a master at "have your cake and eat it too". She just knows how to pull the best out of all situations (and people) and force them to work together for the greater good! Hard, firm boundaries won't work for her mindset and she despises one-sideness or selfish people.
Let her connect and re-center. Ms. Pisces is an empath! She absorbs both good and bad energy from her surroundings and others. It's easy for her to become overstimulated, confused and flustered. To avoid panic attacks and anxiety, allow her sufficient time away from you to refresh, relax and connect with spirit. The more at peace your Pisces is spiritually, the happier you both will be in your relationship. Click here to learn how to help your Pisces de-stress.
Use the comment section below to let me know your needs, Ms. Pisces! What did I leave out of this list?
Thanks to your eyes and spirit for sticking this one out.
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